Becoming a leader

Being a leader is a lot different than being a manager.  A manager is an operator, they follow processes and are expected to produce the desired output.  

A leader is not necessarily a manager.  Individual contributors can be great leaders.  Leaders are people who have strong values, exemplify those values, attract a following or inspire others to do the same.  People work for a manager because they are expected to.  People follow a leader because they want to. 

Leaders are inspirational people, have a vision, the will and ability to make it happen.  Of course, they can’t do it alone.  In a casual conversation, Mike Katchen mentioned to his friend that I got a slew of people at the office to start doing HIIT workouts and intermittent fasting.  His friend noted, “you’re like a cult-leader!” I chuckled and replied, “being a CTO is kind-of-like a cult-leader, but it’s also good for them”.  Post, I realized there’s some truth to his statement, people follow because they want to, I didn’t have to force them to.  

We live in an inter-subjective world.  Values are what we as individuals deem to be valuable.  As a leader, we create a narrative around why we value a way of doing things, why something is worth doing, and communicating potential benefits in the far-off distance.  We don’t have all the solutions.  As a leader, we want others to be inspired by our vision, follow us and come up with solutions that aid in achieving our vision.

As a technical leader, we live in a world where there’s endless chaos, no matter where we look there’s the opportunity for things to be better.  The most important aspect of being a strong leader is to acknowledge this chaos, embrace it and provide a vision and plan for how to achieve the end-goal.  I remember a quote from Bruce Lee, “A goal is not always meant to be reached, it often serves simply as something to aim at.”